If you change the way you look at things, the things you look at change.
~ Dr Wayne Dyer
Do you have things in your life that you think will never change?
Maybe it is an incurable disease, maybe it’s a relationship turned sour, or a career path that is not working for you. Or maybe you have a mountain of debts or your business is floundering.
Are you resigned to your life? Would you like to change that?
7 KEYS TO CHANGING ANYTHING
YOU ARE THE CREATOR
What if you operated from the premise that you have created every part of your life? If you can create every part of your life – the good, the bad and the ugly, then it means that you have the point of power. When you have the point of power you can change anything.
It is not just what we do that creates our life. Our thoughts, feelings, emotions, points of views, beliefs, considerations, and judgments create our lives. Whatever is showing up in our lives right now is a result of what we have been and done in the past.
YOU CAN CHANGE ANYTHING
No matter what is going on in your life, no matter how bleak the situation is, it can change. Maybe you have an incurable disease, or are in a really bad place in a relationship or are struggling with your job or money. No matter what it is, it can change. What would it take for this to change? What can I be or do different today for this to change right away?
DON’T BE VESTED IN HOW IT HAS TO CHANGE
Most people are vested in how change has to occur. They have already decided that this is the only way change has to occur. And if this does not occur then the situation has not changed.
When you ask for change to occur, it always changes. However it never shows up the way you think it will.
WHAT IF THERE WERE NO PROBLEMS?
What if every problem you had was a gift in disguise? If you didn’t look at it as a problem what would it be? What would it take for this problem to be a possibility?
What is the gift in this situation? What possibility can I create here?
WHAT ELSE IS POSSIBLE HERE?
Every time you think of the situation, ask: What else is possible here? What else is possible here that I haven’t even considered? How can this turn out even grater than I could have imagined?
Keep asking these questions over and over again. This gets you off the negative spiral into a spiral of possibility and choice.
DEMAND CHANGE
I remember times in my life when I was so frustrated with what was going on in my life that I just demanded that it change. I remember saying – I don’t care what it takes, I don’t care what has to happen or how it has to happen, but this has to change now! And the beauty of it was that it would change. What would it take for you to demand that change?
NEVER GIVE UP, NEVER GIVE IN, NEVER QUIT
Most people give up too soon. They define success by the time it takes. If time weren’t the issue would you ever fail? No. You would just keep aiming towards your targets till you achieved them.
Keep shooting towards your targets. You will always succeed! Maybe today or tomorrow or next week, next month, next year or in the next decade.
